SERVICES
•
Introduction/consultation
- This can be a phone call or a personal meeting and is included
in the cost of the ceremony. We will typically discuss expectations
on both sides. I will ask about your personalities, how you met,
and how long you would like your ceremony to be, as well as my
responsibilities in regards to record keeping and registering
your marriage with the town/state. I will also discuss when you
need to get your marriage license and how you obtain it.
•
Upon receipt of your non-refundable deposit, which
is 50% of the cost of the services that I am
to
provide,
I
will send to you, via e-mail,
4 sample ceremonies for you to consider. These are
just a guideline and can be edited in any way
that you choose*. I encourage all
of my couples to add anything to the ceremony that
will make it more personal. You can also add
readings, songs, unity candles,
sand/wax ceremonies, etc. to include other people into
the ceremony. I do ask that you get your final
ceremony to me, via e-mail, no
later than 2 weeks prior to your rehearsal date or
ceremony date (whichever comes first) in order
to give me time to practice your
ceremony and get comfortable with the verbiage and
cadence so that I can do my best on your special
day.
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Rehearsal
(If you choose to have one) - I recommend that every couple has
a rehearsal, if possible, to best prepare all people involved
in your day. We will line up, practice walking down the aisle,
coordinate the father (or person that walks the bride down the
aisle) hand-off of the bride to the groom. We will also review
the bouquet hand-off, overview of the ceremony, the rings and
any other facet of your ceremony that warrants practice. We will
go over this as many times as you need to feel comfortable. I
ask that you bring your marriage license and final payment to
the rehearsal so that we can settle up and avoid this piece on
your big day.
• Ceremony
- I will arrive a minimum of 15 minutes before your ceremony is
scheduled to begin. I will check in with the bride first to ask
if she has any last minute questions. I will then join the groom
and wait for the ceremony to begin. And all that is left is the
fun part!
*Reminder:
The ONLY required part of the ceremony is the Declaration of Marriage.
Under Massachusetts law, you must be pronounced married by your
officiant in order for the marriage to be legal. Every other part
of the ceremony is optional.
When you select your Justice of the Peace, make sure you choose
one who will work closely with you and design a ceremony that
best reflects who you are as a couple and a ceremony that you
are comfortable with. For example, if you wish to write your own
vows make sure the Justice you choose is receptive to that. Likewise,
if you are not comfortable with speaking in front of an audience,
make sure your officiant understands that and keeps your verbiage
to a minimum. If you follow this advice, your ceremony will flow
smoothly.
Although I am based in Western Massachusetts I will gladly travel
from the Berkshires to Worcester.
I also happily perform late notice and last minute ceremonies,
as well as renewing of your vows ceremonies. In addition, it is
my honor to wed active military pro bono. Please call for information.
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